Laws R Us

A good friend and I were chatting the other day and commiserating over how we are pretty much burned out over Christmas well before the holiday comes around. Yuletide shopping displays can be seen shortly after Halloween, radio stations start playing carols the day after Thanksgiving, and some folks leave their Christmas lights up all year round. My friend said, “There oughta be a law!” and we started thinking of other insanities that should be banned: marriage before thirty, for instance, or having children without passing a test, and so forth.

Upon further reflection, though, it occurred to me that the last thing we need is more laws. After all, a law is passed, unintended consequences arise, and another law is passed to correct the deficiencies of the first. And so on and so on. The next thing we know, our legislative acts represent a burdensome and intrusive government. Sound familiar?

There are many facets of our society that require regulation from the feds. Others can be handled by governors or mayors. Many are warranted as they protect innocent members of society from those bent on mayhem. Others as a deterrent for those possessing something less than a full deck engaging in foolish behavior. But a seemingly overwhelming number are created simply because we, the people, want someone else to take care of things. Helmet laws, child safety seat laws, seat belt laws, cell phones while driving laws, no smoking laws. The list is long and sure to grow longer.

Wouldn’t it be better if we, the people, stepped up to the plate and took some responsibility for ourselves, our children, and those around us? On some level, we all realize the benefits from using seat belts or child seats. We accept the fact that second hand smoke is something less than healthy and texting while driving leads to traffic mishaps. Why, then, do we need a law?

I know: the “other guy” who never seems to behave in a manner deemed appropriate. This opinion is the ultimate in selfishness. If the other guy is getting away with something ill-advised, then why shouldn’t I be able to do the same? Yeah, I know it’s unsafe, but he’s doing it. This “why not me” attitude leads to many laws that we could do without if only we took some personal responsibility for our actions.

That’s a tall order these days, though, isn’t it? Who’s got time for that? It’s far easier to pass a law and then rely on our constabularies to deal with the scofflaws while we get back to the serious business of reality TV and the like. Where does it end? Or, better yet, does it ever end?

Will we have a law mandating the beginning of the Christmas season? Or outlawing marriage until an age where hormones don’t trump reason? Or issuing childbirth licenses? Probably not. Or at least I hope not. Rather, I’d hope for a society that ignores Christmas marketing until after the Thanksgiving indigestion has subsided. Or delaying a marriage until all factors have been considered. Or accepting the fact that the desire to have a child is not the same as the means. I think it’s called accountability and we’d go a long way to minimizing new legislation if we just took the time to do the right thing instead of the easy one.